Shaefer is very compliant, and alot like my oldest daughter. (And my husband.) A "farmer" personality, one who hoes the field, tends it, patiently awaits the harvest, and then (gasp) does the harvesting! His outlook is quite positive. This morning the woodstove fire went out early on, and I tried to get it going again before the kids were to get up for school. In doing so, I realized too late that all the air in the chimney had cooled so much that it would just push the warm air (read: smoke) out of the box into the room. Not long after, Shaefer's smoke alarm went off--piercing, as I'm sure you know. I turned on the fan to dissipate the smoke, and it went off eventually. Later after Shaefer got up, I apologized for the alarm going off, and he said, "That's okay, I had to get up sometime today anyway." I *love* that kid! :-]
Shaefer is the most athletic of my kids, and was involved in team sports early on. This led to some disappointments, especially when you're trying to instill "teamwork" and nobody tended to show up... So we switched him to TaeKwondo at about age 11. He excelled, and now at 16, he has just earned his Third Degree Blackbelt, and is a second level trainer with ATA. He is great with the kids! His manners and politeness are impeccable--I get comments all the time--and he knows how and when to defend himself and others, which is priceless. He is involved in theater (how could he not be and live in this family!) and is a conscientious and meticulous actor. He understudied the lead in his high school's fall play this year, "Nightfall With Edgar Allan Poe", but probably prefers comedies. His true love with the theater, though, is in technical theater--design, construction, props and stage management.
He will make his future wife a fine husband one day, and that pleases his mother very much. :-]
